College can be a time to lose religion, gain independence

By David Ciarolla

Published: Sunday, August 21, 2011

Updated: Monday, August 22, 2011

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The new semester brings change to all students on campus as they prepare themselves for new knowledge and new experiences. Each individual studies through a unique curriculum he or she chooses in order to create the future most suitable for himself or herself.

One could never hope to complete this dialectical journey without the most vital freedom for full development as a human – freedom of the mind.

The soul craves indulgence in one's own tastes, thoughts, judgments and dreams. And nothing could stifle this independence quite like the suffocating, law-driven harness of religion.

The Church offers absolute truth and security at the expense of authority over one's own life choices, a price so outrageous it should never reach the bargaining table.

Many sects forbid sexual promiscuity, homosexual practices or any seditious strides towards personal pleasure.

This leaves countless conflicted humans riding swells of guilt every week until they renew their limited "pious" aspirations on Sunday morning.

How bland a life in which one's purpose is static and so disagreeable.

Education has a negative correlation with religiosity, as the pool becomes less littered with dissonant relics of irrationality as one travels deeper into academia.

This could mean religion prevents people from achieving higher learning, or that religious ideas sit less comfortably with people disposed to successful pursuits of knowledge. Regardless, religious influence has no positive aid to offer for properly developing one's mind.

Fretful followers will say talking to their god can help students through the difficulties and conflicts of compounding knowledge.

I've personally found warmth and stress relief from talking to my cat and losing religion, which proves either religion is false, my cat is the Lord, or comfort is no measure of veracity.

Real knowledge comes from analyzing the information available with an unprejudiced open mind, not from interpreting vague feelings strictly by a mostly unappealing guidebook.

Religion's only claim to accuracy or allure – comfort – becomes its direct enemy amidst the sundry pleasure and fresh opportunity in independent college life.

Why would anyone want to maintain a limited mind before limitless personalized knowledge and sweet, shameless vice?

An in-depth study of Victorian literature can enthrall far more than religious devotion can, and one can only fully appreciate the joys of subverting the campus police when removed from any divine guilt.

Even those who prefer moral pursuits are better suited to reach their potential without filtering their accepted morality through a nonsensical doctrine.

Love for one's family members should be isolated and honest, not forced through abuse to honor the Torah's Ten Commandments.

Religion only serves to repress one's passions, whether moral or immoral, with a cloud of uncertain servility to a totalitarian thought police.

An independent mind allows full indulgence in one's passions and tastes and no forced second-guessing of a natural desire.

No religious security beats the constant thrill of being the highest and only authority you regard in making every decision.

How else can you know which kind of future you want or how you stand on ambiguous moral issues?

Career paths in college should be created with no appeals to piety, and one's stance on sexual behavior should not depend upon what a book, preacher or guided revelation commands.

The freedom to be oneself, maintain an open mind and sanction one's own morality cannot be oversold.

For a college student, independence should be genuine and unrestrained to allow every bit of fun and education as possible.

This means looking past Christian rock to some more enjoyable music selections.

In this environment religion hurts its followers more than its observers, as dogmas shield them from the broadest spectrum of experience, passion and development.

While this article may sound flippant toward religion, its followers primary motivation in life, let the great majority of these followers consider how flippantly they have accepted ancient, poorly investigated claims of truth on such critically important issues.

Losing one's religion is a difficult decision that involves brief but significant conflict and suffering, while holding one's religion gives a lifetime of conflicted, prescribed passions and misunderstood suffering.

The walk of independence is in no way a universal remedy of self-satisfaction, but it opens doors grander and more numerous than a religious life ever will.

Comments

30 comments
Anonymous
Tue Aug 30 2011 09:50
"Religion only serves to repress one's passions, whether moral or immoral, with a cloud of uncertain servility to a totalitarian thought police."

Is there any environment more ruled by totalitarian thought police than a college campus? Religious persons may preach about the afterlife but they have no power to restrict thought, word or deed. Educational institutions, on the other hand, have been quite busy over the decades formulating speech codes, granting tenure based on political hegemony and practicing the kind of racial segregation that would make a Mississippi plantation owner blush. Dissidents are found guilty in the kangaroo court of student affairs and 'diversity' offices and sentenced to political reeducation or even banishment.

The fall semester is always good for a red-hot new college newspaper columnist to take on his supposed oppressors and preen his open-minded feathers but is there any more hidebound, monolithic ideological group than the press, college or otherwise?

Anonymous
Fri Aug 26 2011 08:55
The late, great Sagan's words from Pale Blue Dot seem fitting:

"Consider again that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every "superstar", every "supreme leader", every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there - on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam.

The Earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that, in glory and triumph, they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of this pixel on the scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner, how frequent their misunderstandings, how eager they are to kill one another, how fervent their hatreds.

Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the Universe:, are challenged by this point of pale light. Our planet is a lonely speck in the great enveloping cosmic dark. In our obscurity, in all this vastness, there is no hint that help will come from elsewhere to save us from ourselves."

an athiest
Fri Aug 26 2011 06:51
Good job, David! I'm so glad to see you've freed yourself from the bondage and are encouraging your readers to do the same. When being outspoken on the other side of this gets tough--and it will, you're now in a small minority that many (as is clear from the comments here) are loath to tollerate--take shelter in Richard Dawkin's "The God Delusion".
Kiwi
Thu Aug 25 2011 14:38
Wow, clearly this article was only published to get a rise out of readers. The DA must be suffering for attention and searching for provocative material, but this is provocative in the wrong way. Ciarolla doesn't even make an effort to understand true Christianity or value an existential journey that finds answers and hope in something larger than ourselves. What a shame. Just because you don't understand it, Mr Ciarolla, doesn't mean you have to condemn it.
Anonymous
Thu Aug 25 2011 11:53
Indeed, religion can be stifling, but it can also be liberating. I subscribe to a religion, one that promotes reasoning, contemplation, and understanding of reality. I have no God or Goddess. Their existence is unknowable and therefore, a waste of effort. . My religion focuses on the here and now. It's very liberating.

How can you deny what others find in their spiritual path? Only the ignorant deny the happiness of others. Only those who feel empty cast the stones at those who are fulfilled.

Here's the reason some people give up "shameless, sweet vices": they realize that the happiness gained from the act is limited, empty of value, and fast-fading. Living within your prospective religion gives purpose, fulfillment, and lasting (more-so) happiness

Anonymous
Wed Aug 24 2011 14:22
"Your beliefs are in no way special and will be looked upon as crazy in a thousand years."

Because the Christians of 1,000 or 2,000 years ago are looked upon as crazy today, right?

Anonymous
Wed Aug 24 2011 10:12
Your belief in god and christian values are based entirely on the random chance that you happened to be born in the USA at this period of time. If you were born in India you would be one of the billion hindus in the world, if you were were born during the roman empire you would worship zeus, if a viking it would have been thor. Your beliefs are in no way special and will be looked upon as crazy in a thousand years.
You are nothing more than dieing organic matter floating on a rock in space. Random atoms put together and nothing more. Enjoy your life and stop worrying about what some ghost in the sky thinks of you.
Anonymous
Wed Aug 24 2011 09:14
"The generalization that somehow the paper is liberal is nonsense - political ideology does not come into any news story, and any hint is removed."

The majority of the opinion writers at the DA are liberal, and always have been. I suspect that it is not as open to conservatives as is claimed. If it was, there would be an equal number of liberals/conservatives on staff and conservatives would not have felt the need to create a separate student newspaper. If you do not believe that the paper has an obvious liberal bias, then you should get out of journalism.

Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 23:37
Keep in mind, opinions are just like %^&*holes. Everyone has one. Those opinions does not represent the student majority. Remain true to your spiritual beliefs, yourself, family and true friends. You know who's has your back. Remain focused on you own personal goals for life success. Your resources will provide the support for you as students to allow growth in your personal life. Experience and exposure provides the greatest lessons for any young person during their next step in life during your maturation period. Students must live and learn from their own personal experience to reach the next level of success. We can't listen to opinions that one has a right to express, then get bent out of shape because of the opinion page. Simply whip him with the truth by living the life. For God sakes, some of these folks talk to Cats. For you that engage in this practice, please share your cat's response to us when they provide you verbal guidance. It should be an interesting conversation.
Idiots and jerks are everywhere!! Ignore their comments, expecially, if it doesn't suit your upbringing and life style. Continue to walk and live your life in a positive manner. Simply, Insure you're not the one to cause harm toward anyone while you continue your education. We (students) can't afford to lose our education over dumb bull$it.
Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 22:38
Children are a result of sexual intercourse. That's basic biology.

As Robert Pirsig said... When one man has a delusion we call it insanity, when hundreds do we call it religion.

Sorry I don't need your carrot, I'll be good because I am a human with a brain. If you need continual reminders to be good that's your choice.

@Bob
Tue Aug 23 2011 21:25
And who do you think "staff" is, genius? The DA hires ANYONE who demonstrates the slightest ability to write. It's open to all students. The notion that these jobs are assigned based on political persuasion is ridiculous. I personally know one of the former opinion editors, and I've heard this from multiple editors at the DA-- they are actively looking for conservative writers to help fix this idiotic misconception. Look at the most commented articles...two of them are very partisan, rightwing columns. Stop acting like you're the victims here...there are no victims. It's just a student paper that is open to any and everyone who is interested.
Bob
Tue Aug 23 2011 20:46
To anyone claiming the DA has no agenda is full of crap. The paper endorsed Obama only Democratic candidates for West Virginia Governor and other statewide races. The author of those articles were addressed as staff.

Never a Republican

Cowboy Chris
Tue Aug 23 2011 20:39
@anonymous
I hope you loose it, because I love seeing a liberal cry and tell his mommy. I would say about 90% of the junk is liberal and yet you only look at the 10% of the articles that are conservative and claim the DA to not be a liberal paper. Your party has failed and is full of worthless people that want handouts. As far as Ron Paul goes I would consider him somewhat liberal
Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 19:43
if I hear one more idiot blabbering about how the DA is a left-wing conspiracy, I'm gonna lose it. DID YOU SEE THE RON PAUL-WORSHIPPING OP-ED THAT HEADLINED THE OPINION PAGE YESTERDAY? You morons just pick the liberal pieces and cry about them and ignore the plethora of conservative opinions that appear in this paper. The DA has no agenda...it is a platform for any student capable of writing a semi-decent article to publish their work and have their voices heard. Don't know what it will take for people to get this through their thick skulls.
Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 19:42
Children are not born with religion, but they are born because of God.

I think that religion is a choice that God has given us because he does not want mindless robots wandering this planet without freewill to express their love to Him freely. I believe that God wants us to love him without preprogrammed insincerity.

You think of the absolute mind blowing odds of this rock in the solar system and it's ability to sustain life and then take into account the staggering odds of your heart beat coming to life in your chest as a fetus and the mind blowing odds of the combination of events that occur day after day inside your body and in your environment that keeps you alive. Then you have the guts to still look up into the sky and scream that there is no God.

You have more guts than I do my friend. I'd rather have an iota of doubt that there may not be a God and worship HIm the best my Bible tells me, then to deny His being and find out where the special place He says awaits those that deny Him is.

Humbleness and knowing we have a creator is the true beginning of knowledge. Humanistic narcissism is the beginning of the fall of every nation this earth has ever had. Re

Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 18:22
I love how the christians have no proof or reasoning to back up their beliefs. They just yell and say hurtful things.

There is no god. Jesus is a fairy tale.

Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 18:14
"Take your atheist garbage elsewhere!", "Why is the DA intervening with something that should be dealt with in one's own home?", "If I see another article like this, I will pull my advertising from the DA in a heartbeat"

You do realize this is an opinion article, right? The DA is not endorsing what the article has to say. They are merely publishing someone's opinion, which serves to introduce us to a diversity of ideas and to foster discussion.

I" truly believe in Freedom of Speech, but this "writer" needs to respect my "Freedom of Religion". "

Freedom of Religion allows you to practice your religion. No one is making you leave your religion. He has every right to write what appears in the article.

Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 16:24
The front page shorter title for this article is "Freedom Gained in College." That's probably more offensive than the article itself.
The Council on Female Relations
Tue Aug 23 2011 16:00
David,
you are a far-left,delusional moron! Take your atheist garbage elsewhere!
Anonymous Tue Aug 23 2011 15:36,
why do you deal with YOUR life and stop worry about others, you far-left hack!
Anonymous
Tue Aug 23 2011 15:36
God is something weak minds created to cope with their inability to deal with life.
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